Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Bad Wedding Night: Woman Discovers She's Allergic to Husband's Sperm

An allergy to just about anything is possible. What if you discovered you were allergic to your husband's sperm? Worse, what if it happened on your wedding night?

In this case, it wasn't because the couple waited to have sex until their wedding night. However, they did wait to have unprotected sex until then. Mike and Julie Boyde married after a two year courtship, and Julie was in unbearable pain after their wedding night.

The pain continued, and sometimes included blisters. After numerous tests the couple were told that Julie suffers from seminal plasma hypersensitivity.

As described,
In a very small number of cases, people have experienced allergic reactions when they touched semen. This is called human seminal plasma hypersensitivity. The symptoms (signs of the medical problem) can either be near the part of the body which touched the semen, or all over the body. They may include itching of the vagina, redness, swelling or blisters within 30 minutes of contact. They may also include itching and hives (large, red, itchy patches) all over the body, and even difficulty breathing.
In reality, it doesn't sound any different than any other type of allergy. However, this one can prevent pregnancy, of course, and although it's possible to use IVF, in this case it appeared to fail. Mike and Julie Boyde are looking into adoption.
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Monday, October 19, 2009

Justice of Peace Who Refuses to Marry Interracial Couples Hated by All, He Says

The Justice of the Peace who refuses to marry interracial couples in Louisiana continues to be at the center of a firestorm. He now says that "everyone" hates him.
"Everybody hates me. Really. I don't know why. I treat people, I figure, equal. I have one problem with marrying mixed-race marriages and that is the offspring."
This story became public when Keith Bardwell refused to grant Beth and Terence McKay a marriage license. The couple eventually went to a different justice suggested by Bardwell's wife, and were married.

The Louisiana chapter of the ACLU has called Bardwell's decision "tragic and illegal," while Louisiana Governor Bobby Jindal has called for the justice's license to be revoked. However, Keith Bardwell is refusing to resign. Meanwhile the McKays are considering legal action to ensure Bardwell loses his license.

The couple appeared on CNN's this morning on Monday. Terence McKay said:
"Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but he's absolutely wrong on all aspects of this stance. He's saying the only reason he doesn't marry interracial couples is dealing with the ... because of the offspring of the marriages. But, if it wasn't for interracial couples today, we wouldn't have our president. So for him to take that outlook, that's like the 1800's."
Watch this video from CNN's American Morning, broadcast Oct. 19, 2009, via Raw Replay.

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Thursday, October 15, 2009

Louisiana Justice of the Peace Refuses to Marry Interracial Couple

A Louisiana justice of the peace refused to grant a marriage license to an interracial couple, despite knowing such a move is illegal. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, cited concerns over the biracial children that would result.

Bardwell said that in his experience shows neither black nor white society accepts such biracial children. He also stated that interracial marriages do not last long. Thus, he refuses to grant marriage license for any interracial couples. He said:
“I’m not a racist. I do ceremonies for black couples right here in my house. My main concern is for the children.”
I would be interesting to find out what Bardwell thinks of interracial couples of other races. For example, in California, it's quite common for Japanese-Americans to marry Caucasians. And in California, at least, there is no such issue with acceptance.

It is in fact true that Bardwell's act is illegal. In 1963, in the case of Loving vs. Virginia, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the government cannot prohibit marriages simply because of the race of the spouses. Thus, Bardwell's stance is over 50 years out of date.

Bardwell has been a justice of the peace for 34 years. This is his final term, though it does not end until 2014.

Beth Humphrey, 30, said she that and her fiance, Terence McKay, 32, both of Hammond, intend to consult the U.S. Justice Department about filing a discrimination complaint.

Humphrey called Bardwell on Oct. 6th to ask about getting a marriage license signed. It was Bardwell's wife who spoke to Humphrey on the phone and told her of his stance. She also told Humphrey to consult Justice of the Peace Terri Crosby of Tickfaw; Crosby agreed to sign the license.

American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzman said that the ACLU was preparing a letter for the Louisiana Supreme Court, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and see if they can remove him from office. She added:
"It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009. The Supreme Court ruled as far back as 1963 that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry. He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it."
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